Posts in Family
I Don't Care

I don’t care what you do!  It doesn’t matter to me.  Have you said this, either emphatically, or just as a matter of fact?   When you reflect on the times you have said it, was it actually true, or is it something you said to protect yourself?  Does it ever really hurt less because we announce our indifference?

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Gefilter Fish

While the title is meant to amuse, the content is meant to contribute.  We humans have filters --think colored glasses, that truly control what it is we see and what we don’t see in life --and our relationships.  Typically, these filters are not 100% transparent to us, and we believe that what we see is all there is to see.  Unfortunately this isn’t true and impacts are relationships remendously.

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Recipes for Meaningful --even Happy Holidays

The holiday season is such a mix.  It’s a little bit tricky.  Some look forward to it, and some dread it, some are a mix for sure.  We have been guided into thinking that’s it’s happy time no matter what, and family is the most important thing.  This time of year can have us thinking there is something wrong with us, given how wildly different the holidays are for us.

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