self-guided program
Finding Your Perfect Partner
Finding the perfect partner has been a life’s work for some of you. You get so close to finding them — and then something happens. Or you never even come close and have (almost) given up looking. We live in a click-and-get-what-you-want-in-an-instant, throw-away culture. Mix that in with movies and romance novels telling us that within two hours we will live happily ever after, then add in a few generations that have lost their connection to the natural world — meaning many of us have lost a sense of what’s sacred and life-giving — and it’s no wonder that it seems impossible to create a respectful, loving, and satisfying relationship with a partner.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
Find Your Dream Relationship
“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. It isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems — the ones that make you truly who you are — that you’re ready to find a life-long mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong person — someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, ‘This is the problem I want to have.’”
In this program, you will be invited to look at the practice of finding a partner with brand new eyes. In a way, you are not looking for a person, you are hoping for an experience. Love, care, tenderness, humor, joy, cooperation: identifying exactly what you want will give you the clarity and confidence to choose which person might be able to join you in creating the life and partnership you have always wanted.
In this self-guided, 3-week program, you will learn:
What’s truly important to you in a relationship.
How to determine the needs — the Touchstones — that are important to you for a great relationship.
How to stay consistent and committed to what you want in the search for the perfect partner.
How to develop strategies to communicate with potential partners.
How to avoid saying "yes" to those who are not a good match.
Once you complete this program, you will have the tools you need to find your perfect partner. The shifts you will make — in your own self-awareness, confidence, and commitment to showing up in the ways that you would want your partner to — will broadcast to all the people you meet, “This is what I am looking for!” All you have to do is say "yes" or "no" according to your own plan. You will have the will to wait and discern, to invite and negotiate, and to speak up and listen well. This is what it will take to have a perfect relationship.
As soon as you register, you receive:
Three actionable lessons, with worksheets, emailed straight to your inbox.
Direct access to me in a private Facebook community, where you also receive the support and understanding of a small group of people who are also interested in finding the relationship of their dreams.
The guidance you need to make the changes you desire.
The chance to go at your own pace. A new lesson is emailed to you once a week for 3 weeks, but feel free to download the materials and do the work whenever you have time, in the privacy of your own home or even in your favorite coffee shop.
